Wednesday, March 25, 2009

It has been a while

Well it has been very interesting around here. Last night one of our friends left, so she could finish her trip to Oregon, but not without drama. Our friend adopted one of my foster kittens about two years ago and she named him Mr. Fluffy. I love seeing Mr. Fluffy, but I am sad to say that someone injured him. We do not know who, but we do know how. Someone slammed his tail in the door and they injured it enough that the bone is now exposed. On Friday Beth is going to have part of his tail amputated. I can't believe someone would do that and then not own up to it. Sometimes people suck.
I also found out yesterday that a dear friend will not be coming back. I have mentioned her before, She is the one that I help pack up. Yep, she is finally sick of her husband and has had enough. I can't blame her. I am just mad that I will not be able to hold that baby for a very long time. Guy's can be such jerks.
Today I am going in to get my referrals and start the process of seeing what the heck we are going to do about my insides. If we do anything. I have not made any decisions and I won't until I see the results of a new ct scan and compare them to the old ones. So today is the first step for me.
Today I don't really have a lot going on. I have laundry to do, but that is normal. I have a doctors appointment and then after that I think I am just going to chill and read a book. Did those words come out of my mouth? I am not a reader. Never have been, but I am reading a book called forever Lily. It is about a ladies journey to adopt a child from China. I am so there in China with here! I do need to read more, but I have a very hard time finding books that hold my interest.
I talked to one of my uncles yesterday. I called him and asked him if he would like some pictures of him when he was little. I goofed big time. The other boy in the picture with my dad was not that uncle but another uncle. Oh well. My uncle asked me how my mom was doing. I just let out a big sigh. I gave him a brief run down of how he was doing. Then he asked something else and I had to explain that for years my parents tried to keep my sister happy just because she was adopted, and now that is carrying over to hell child.
My Uncle brought up a good point to me. He said that sometimes the children do have to raise the parents. I told my uncle that I just don't know what to do, so I am doing nothing. My mother is a grown women and she knows what she needs to do, but is not doing it. Now, my uncle has got me thinking. That is all he has me doing. Do I need to get in my mom's face and tell her what she should already know. Is my mother spinning out of control so much that she can't see what the rest of us see? My mom is still in Mexico, and I have no idea when I will talk to her again, but my uncle did give me something to think about. And thinking is all I am doing.
Life is good


Penny said...

Thinking is good. Getting in your mom's face may not be. Here's a suggestion I got years ago from my sponsor: talk to her, tell her you love her, but when she starts to rant or complain, tell her that you are sorry she's feeling so bad and get off the phone. I did this with my grandmother for the last few years of her life and our relationship got better. I'll keep you in my prayers, Penny

Queenneenee said...

yes please DO take care of those insides of yours. We only get the one bunch of insides, so now that you have insurance do it! Its very important that we take care of ourselves, no one else can do it. Take care and enjoy your book!

Gerry said...

I hope things are better in the ladies' parts department. Everything needs to come to bear on your decision, including instincts. One of Pierre's cats got her tail caught in a door and it had to be chopped off. Part of it anyway, and she was sensitive there, but accidents happen. I think he was the one who came in the door and didn't realize she was coming through, too, and he felt very bad. Don't know what to say about Mom, but life is too short to quarrel, and it so upsets the system, but sometimes it is necessary and sometimes it can be slowed down or even avoided. Depends. Good luck.

It's Just Katie! said...

Sometimes that's all you can do is think. Your damned if you do and damned if you don't. My hopes are that you enjoy your reads and enjoy your "Me" time. Take care of you,

Michelle said...

Hi Kellie,

I hope the new catscan is better then the first!

I'll be keeping you in my prayers!!!


Paula said...

Hope things turn out well with your medical condition. Take care of you Kelli.

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Melissa said...

i hope u can find out whats wrong

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